Fortunately I have other more benign roommates. A crafty little spider spun a big web in the corner over my bed. Lucky is the mosquito that makes it into my bedroom and escapes both my fly swatter and the arachnid corner of doom. Although the geckos keep me up some nights with their chirping and barking, I am happy to know they are patrolling my walls for mosquitoes. And on more than one occasion I have literally bumped into a tree frog. One night as I groped in the dark for the door, I was startled to feel a slimy, squishy, bumpy lump where the doorknob should have been. When I withdrew my hand I heard a wet slap as the frog jumped to the floor. My headlamp confirmed that it was indeed a very large tree frog.
A mantis and lizard in/near my apartment
I find all sorts of insects and birds and reptiles around, in, and near the house. Most are harmless, if not downright amusing, like the gigantic bumbling beetles that clumsily circle around the room, repeatedly bashing into the walls like drunken helicopters. From my hammock I can hear the calls of strange rainforest birds and insects, and the hooting of gibbons and macaque monkeys. The other day I heard nearby rustling grasses and the bamboo-snapping racket that could only come from a very large mammal. Prepared for tigers and mad elephants, I stepped out onto the porch to find… cows. A whole herd of them. (There are wild tigers and elephants known to exist as close as 20km from here though!)
Moooooo!
Perhaps most comforting are my neighbors of the human type. There is something reassuring about hearing Dawn and Som’s voices softly echoing off the walls next door, or the children playing across the street. I know that after a long day I can go down the street to get Som Tam for dinner with Dawn and Som, or we can ride our bikes down to the coffee shop for some Thai iced tea to dispel the fatigue and stresses of field work. I know that every morning when I slide my door open the neighbors will wave and shout “HELOOO… SAWAT DEE KRUP”!! When I go running in the morning the kids will chase me and shout “HELOOOO” and the old men and women will laugh and give me the thumbs up sign or shout “NUMBAH ONE!” I like to think that they recognize me on my pink bike in town, on my way to work, or shopping at the market. I hope despite the fact that I’m a funny farang girl doing god (or Allah or Buddha) knows what in this village in the middle of nowhere, they still think of me as their neighbor.
Once when I was leaving to get dinner the next door neighbor walked over and was emphatically asking me something. (GIN KEAOW, GIN KEAOW!!!) I knew it had something to do with eating because she was mimicking the motion of eating, but I just figured that she was making polite conversation and asking whether I was going to eat dinner. I quickly became embarrassed and shy because I couldn’t understand. I awkwardly laughed and waved and rode away, trying to make as polite an exit as possible. Only later did it occur to me that Thais NEVER eat dinner alone, so she was definitely inviting me over to her house to join her family for dinner. I felt rude, but it warmed my heart to know that my neighbors -- even the ones I can’t communicate with -- are looking out for me.


